Well, first of all, thanks to all who replied. Your views have been very interesting, and gave me "food for thought"...Iīll be considering your points, theyīre all very interesting.
Yes, on hindsight, Iīll admit maybe I am a little too romantic...but you see, I think Superman has on some moments attained such a...shining height as a rolemodel for what man should be, that yes, it is hard to see some other moments when the caracter is in a less-than-godlike attitude.
I donīt mean Supesīstories should be only about perfection, there were some very nice and even funny ones, which were great for leisure.
But, I am referring to when he is reduced to a sort of "big, strong and dumb" guy, just one more of them super super super types...for me at least, he has distinguished himself for his principles, his ethics, his intelligence, not only his ultrapowerful attributes.
In short, as one of you posters put it, he is just a commercial product, yes...and I am romanticizing things...but, i gotta say this - for me, the Superman I knew in my childhood was more than just a superhero - he was an ideal to look up to, an icon, of what we should all try to be.
His vow of never taking a human life (yes, I know of the micro-universe story in which he killed the three kryptonian criminals, but I place that story alongside with the irrelevant ones, I think it was awful, not Superman at all) or any other kind of life, was sublime, if not as an attainable practice, but as a crystal-clear ideal we should all be deeply aware of - the sanctity of all life.
So in THAT way, I think he should be kept in that spirit, not give in to trends and modisms....can you imagine, if in 20 or 30 years ahead, due to changing values, we have a story in which he is portrayed as being gay, or a serial killer, or what-have-you? (BEFORE the criticism storm....I think there is nothing wrong with gays, or being gay, donīt mean to criticize them....but sorry, this is personal, it just ISNīT MY THING - and I certainly could never project it into Superman.)
The Superman I knew was a hell of a fighter, a no-quitter, courageous, brave, chivalrious to women (esp. to Lois), the ideal balance of man-type values combined with a sensitive and generous soul.
He defended the weak, the needy, he cared for the well-being of everyone, and he fought for life. He was selfless, always placing the good of others before his own. He was a fighter, but forever against fighting, and certainly all-out against war and hate.
He was Superman.
Well, perhaps I should just adopt the nik "Romantic"...

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